No one fucking cares about your insecurities!

Insecurities. Those little demons that get into our heads and make us feel like we’re not good enough. Little thoughts and feelings that we cannot really pinpoint where they come from or when they started. We just know they’re inside our heads, our bodies, our souls. Eating us alive from the inside. And no one fucking sees them.
They’re all in your head. Every.Single.Insecurity.You’ve.Ever.Had.
 
“I am fat”.
“I have dimples in my thighs/legs/butt”.
“I have small/big boobs”
“My nose is crooked”
“I don’t have a thigh-gap”
“My hair isn’t long/shiny/straight/wavy enough”
“My teeth are not straight”
“I am stupid”
“I am never good enough”
“I have a belly”
“I am ugly”.
 
All of those things are in YOUR head. Let’s be honest here…every girl has insecurities. At least every girl I know, even if they don’t like to admit it in public, has some insecurities. But, when you see someone, do you see those insecurities? Those thoughts and feelings that make them upset and feeling unworthy? NO! You see your friends/family/girlfriend and you think they’re fucking amazing and awesome and sometimes you wish you were more like them! Because, you think there’s no fucking way they’re as insecure as you are. 
 
News flash: They are. We ALL are! Sometimes I look at myself in the mirror and I see a disgusting person. Which is completely insane because, even if I’m not everyone’s taste or I don’t fit into the society norms of what is supposed to be beautiful, I’m pretty darn sure I ain’t disgusting! I take a lot of pride in my personal hygiene and stuff…and I smell pretty good, or so I’ve been told. But it’s my insecurities getting into my head that make me feel that way and make me think that I have “flaws”. And it fucking sucks!!!
 
 
So many of my friends let those insecurities bring problems into their romantic relationships. Girls…let me tell you something…most 98% of the guys I know don’t even realize you are insecure, unless you make it pretty obvious! If a guy wants to be with you it’s because he sees something in you. He’s not thinking “Damn, she’s so fun and cool and shit, if only she had thinner legs”. (And if he is, dump him like I did with this guy, because trust me, he ain’t worth you!)
 
And if you think “OMG I’m like never getting naked in front of him because he’d see my cellulite”, first off, most guys don’t know what cellulite is and if they do, that’s the last thing on their mind when they’re about to see you naked! Don’t believe me? Read this and this articles. 
 
Bottom line is, the people around you don’t see all those small things you see, those insecurities, no one else sees them. And sometimes people even like that about you!!! I laugh like a freaking 5-year-old, when I laugh, I laugh hard and that used to make me insecure and I used to try and tone it down a notch…until a very good friend of mine asked me why the hell I did that, because that’s one of the things he and other friends find cute about me. Apparently my laugh is “intoxicating and contagious”. You can rest assured I am never toning my laugh down anymore!!!
 
YES! You are!! We ALL are! 
 
Stop letting your insecurities control your life…they’re only in your head..if you go right now and tell your friends 5 things you feel insecure about, I guarantee you they will tell you they had no freaking clue. And will most probably tell you that you’re insane for feeling and thinking that. 
It’s normal to feel somewhat insecure…but don’t let that control your life. More often than not, the things that make you feel insecure about yourself are the same things that make you unique and who you are!
 
Rosie

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2 Comments

  1. Anonymous
    Sunday September 14th, 2014 / 09:57 AM

    I think that is true, we never see other people's insecurities, but always think they see ours! Insecurity is just that little voice in our head that wants to put us down!

    I love when you write these kind of posts

    Cris

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