Hey hey everyone!
Today for Inspirational Monday I will be very honest…I did not have anything pre-written (I usually write my I.M’s on Sunday evening). I was kinda lost, not knowing what do write about…
So, this morning, when I woke up, I was pretty sure I was not going to post anything today…and then I saw a picture while stalking my friends surfing on Facebook and it just says everything I’ve been feeling!
I’m the kind of person that gives their all to everyone…you might not be my friend directly..but if you’re important for someone I love, I will care for you like I would care for a friend..and sometimes…well, sometimes i get run over..
If someone’s important for someone important to me…I tend to think they’re good people…I mean, someone I love could not possibly trust and have high feelings for bad people, right? That just would never happen..
Ok, I might be being sarcastic…but that’s actually how I feel…which means..I tend to trust to easily some people that I know nothing about just because my boyfriend or my best friends like them and are friends with them..and the more than I would like to admit, I ignore my own instincts and well…eventually end up disappointed..and I never get over it…I end up feeling like an idiot for caring for people who never cared about me…who sometimes even pretended to like me and then talked crap about me behind my back to my boyfriend or best friend (or whoever they were friends with…you get my point!). I always end up torturing myself for it…and this weekend I had a talk with my Mr about stuff like this…and I’ve realized..it’s not my fault! My friends say I’m to good for my own good…and I guess in this case they’re right!!! I am going to stop torturing and blaming myself over things like this…because sometimes…well..sometimes some people are just bad people…and it’s not your fault!
If you have people who hurt you…forgive them…but don’t forget it! Forgive them…and most of all, forgive yourself for letting them hurt you. And just remember that sometimes it’s not your fault that they hurt you…because sometimes people play us. It’s the sad reality, but it’s true! Some people don’t know how to be good friends…not because they’re bad people, but because they never had the opportunity to learn how to be good friends..but that doesn’t mean it’s ok for them to hurt you and play with your feelings…
So…be a good person..be a good friend..don’t take people for granted…but don’t let yourself be played either..and know when to let things go a cut people out of your life!
Know what you deserve…and no one deserves to be mistreated in any way =)
Have a great week!